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本文转载自雨柔《做人的心计》

和大家分享这篇日志，我的看法是：

原文地址：做人的心计原文作者：雨柔

做人的心计 - 雨柔 - 雨柔的博客

九能屈能伸，“忍”字当先

1、退一步海阔天空

2、把丢脸看成是磨练

3、别为小事较真

4、当中拥抱你的“敌人”

5、把气发在小事上

6、把批评当镜子

7、忍让要有度

十做情绪的主人

1、好马也吃回头草

2、彻底消除消极心态

3、丢掉不稳定的情绪

4、撞了南墙要回头

5、手握心情的遥控器

6、有一点“阿Q精神”

7、拥有宽容之心

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